Posts Tagged ‘Resources’

online banking…reallocating resources

Tuesday, December 6th, 2011

I love online banking.  It’s so convenient. A few clicks of the mouse and my funds are moved from place to place.  No more writing checks. No more late payments (well, there were really none of those before). I can actually sit in a small room in Siberia and still reallocate my resources.

I wonder if that’s the view that God has?  Not that He’s in Siberia (I really hope heaven is warmer than that–not too warm, though). But, from His vantage point, He moves resources from one place to another.  He sees a need and He sees the resources and He moves them…or, more specifically, He moves us to move them

When we realize that what we have — time, energy, money, stuff –is really His, then we aren’t surprised nor resistant to Him asking us to meet the needs of a hungry child, a homeless family, or a grieving mother. He clicks the mouse a few times and voila, His resources once in our account are now reallocated to the life of a needy situation.

What do you think? Are you willing to have His resources moved from your care to that of another?

Preaching on marriage…

Friday, April 29th, 2011

As I cast my eyes across the room on Sunday I see people who are happily married, unhappily married, happily single, unhappily single, happily remarried and unhappily divorced. Every face tells a story.  And, I’ve learned, every face represents an opportunity for me to offend, hurt, ignore, misrepresent or omit. I hope you know every hurt is unintentional…  My goal is always to heal and help…but in my humanity, I sometimes fail.

This week we’re thinking about the power of marriage to communicate the love of Christ and the power of the gospel to make a difference.  Honestly, that is as clearly seen in divorce recovery, marital reconciliation, remarriage success, as it is in a healthy first marriage. The point is…any marriage (or singleness for that matter) can be a powerful witness for Christ.

I asked Evan Horner, our marriage and family counselor, to suggest some resources he’s found helpful.  Here the ones he suggested:

*Eggerichs, Emerson. (2004). Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires, The Respect He Desperately Needs. Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson.
*Gottman, J. (1994). Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: and How You can Make Yours Last. New York: Simon and Schuster.
*Harley, W. F. (2001). His Needs Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage. Grand Rapids, MI: Fleming H. Revell.
*Parrott, L. & Parrott, L. (2002). The Love List: Eight Little Things that Make a Big Difference in Your Marriage. Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
*Stanley, S., Trathen, D., McCain, S., & Bryan, M. (1998). A Lasting Promise: A Christian Guide to Fighting for Your Marriage. SanFrancisco: Jossey Bass.
 *Wright, H. N. & Oliver, G. J. (1994). How to Bring Out the Best in Your Spouse. Ann Arbor, MI: Servant Publications.