Posts Tagged ‘Hospitality’

a little goes a long way…

Friday, March 16th, 2012

I’m privileged to be married to a woman gifted at hospitality and service. She knows how to make people feel welcome and she knows how to serve without notice (so don’t tell her I’ve written this). And actually, I’m only telling you this because it leads me to brag upon our daughter–who learned a lot from her mother. Amy just sent a note about how inviting a woman over for to make a few crafts has been so incredibly meaningful to this woman. A simple act…not much at all…”let’s spend some time together…”has turned into meaningful ministry.

Earlier today I was in a conversation about a number of our people who are serving at Teen Reach. I know (since I’ve talked with the specific individuals) that none of them think they are doing “all that much.”  They volunteer some time one day a week.  And yet, to hear from Teen Reach, they are making a huge difference in the lives of people.  Amazing how something so “small” has gone such a long way.

For the past few months we’ve been trying to feed people over the weekends through our Kidzpacks. It’s not a very big backpack. It’s only a few hours each week, collecting and packing food. Yet this simple act has led to some of our folks contacting their employers who have now funded some programming at the school (they can’t give to us, it has to go to the school itself). This morning I learned that they may have decided to fund a couple of other schools’ programs as well. It’s amazing how far a simple act of kindness can go.

It often isn’t much. Just a simple invitation to lunch. Or, a request to “join me at church.” Maybe it’s a small donation to a charity. Or it’s a salad taken to a neighbor.  Sometimes it’s a couple of hours serving a funeral meal, or a morning cleaning gutters, or spending a Sunday a month working in the nursery.  It isn’t much…but it doesn’t have to be.

it’s a small world…

Sunday, November 20th, 2011

I’m amazed at the interconnectedness of our world.  About a gazillion years ago Gail and I served a church our final year of college.  Bobbye was a feisty junior high girl in our youth group. A few years later she and her husband served as the youth ministers at Lincoln Christian Church where our children were in her youth group.  Then, a few years after that, one of their sons was in a small group that I led on the Lincoln campus.  It’s been an interesting back and forth kind of connection.

I was amused this Friday and Saturday because the connection continues. Bobbye’s oldest son is married to the daughter of a student I had in the class I taught. Who knows where this seesaw relationship will end up.  My grandson in Bobbye’s son’s youth group?  Who knows.

The kingdom of God is one enormous, exciting, interconnected, interrelated family. We have relatives across the street and across the ocean.The church’s ubiquitous presence is powerful testimony to the grace of God. The availability of hospitable friends in every corner of the world testifies to the marvel of Christian unity. The connection with people of every nation, language and tribe…witness of the unifying Spirit of God.

it finally happened…

Tuesday, May 24th, 2011

I hope the young woman realized it wasn’t really our fault. And I do feel bad that she made a trip all the way out here just to find out we had no idea what she was talking about. And I hope she feels she was treated well. But, in spite of her inconvenience, the more I’ve thought about what happened, the more excited I’ve gotten.  I hope you’ll understand and share my excitement.

This isn’t about fame or notoriety. It’s certainly not about attention grabbing.  It’s just a simple reality I have prayed would happen. Several years ago I realized that Madison Park church had the potential for incredible impact in the community. We could (and should) make difference. Not because we are flashy or noisy…but because we are faithful to Jesus and because we love and care for people.

Anyway, it finally happened. A delivery person with a carry-out order came here looking for someone who wanted food.  She gave us the name and no one recognized it.  We asked around, no one knew who it was.  We tracked down some guests in our building to see if they knew…no one did.  Finally, we asked for clarity. Her response, “Someone from Madison Park called in an order. I have their name, their phone number and Madison Park as the location.”  So, we called the number.

You’ve probably guessed by now.  They were in the actual “Madison Park”–the actual park on Maine street across from Madison School. I have longed for the day (still do) that when people hear “Madison Park” their first thought is the church…not the park…not the school. Not for our sake. For their sake. Because then they’ll get to hear about Jesus and experience Life Change.

echoes of a little church…

Friday, April 15th, 2011

It’s both encouraging and frightening. It’s testimony to the power of acceptance and the power of story. It captures the past and impacts the future.  What is it?  It’s the story of a church with a powerful love for those who don’t know Jesus.

A good friend who lives and works in Poland just posted this note on my Facebook page: “adam szumorek recently spoke to our staff about a “young man who walked into a church with cut-off jean shorts and no shirt. apparently his name was chuck. greetings from poland. . . :) ” Yep, that’s me.  But it’s not about me.  It’s about a small church with a big heart.

I’ve told that story all over the world in the hopes that it would compel believers to be as accepting and open to others as that church was to me. I mean, who would have thought that the kind acceptance of a little church in a town of 400 people in southwest Idaho could possibly influence churches in Poland and beyond?

I believe we are that kind of church. I believe we can change the spirit and dreams of another young man or woman. I believe that in fifty years there’ll be a story told of someone coming to faith, here, that will be influencing generations in other places of the world.

Blessed…

Thursday, March 17th, 2011

It’s hard to express how privileged I feel getting to spend time with Christians from around the world.  I’m in the midst of a delightful group of Jesus followers.  They are church leaders, Bible college professors and drug addiction counselors.  They care about the lost and the church.  They are working hard to learn better ways of studying.  They are full of life and laughter.  I’m the richer for the experience.

Being “shipped off to Siberia” hasn’t been what the concept might communicate.  The city is 1.2 million.  It’s bustling (though I’ve seen very little of it).  The traffic in the snow is incredible–drivers are crazy. I can’t imagine what it’s like on dry pavement.  The folks here at the college where I’m teaching and staying are incredibly hospitable.  They’ve made my stay pleasant.

I did get out the other night to see just a little.  I’m including a picture of an Orthodox church.  They are everywhere I look, both in Moscow and here.  But they are sad…providing no real hope for people.  It’s a lifeless ritual which may give a sense of awe about God–but there is no appeal to a changed life.  The other picture is the building where West Siberia Bible College meets.  It’s where I’m staying.  You’ll be able to tell the difference.  :)

What a privilege to be part of a church that wants not only to see God receive praise–but wants man to receive God.

No need to be a stranger

Friday, January 14th, 2011

I couldn’t quite make out what the cup said, but it was something like, “No need to be a stranger.”  If the Starbucks cup didn’t say that, it should have.  It’s a great sentiment.  It’s how I feel about our congregation.  It’s what I want to say to all the folks who don’t go to church anywhere.  “There’s no need to be a stranger.”

We do a great job of helping people not feel like strangers. I get told that repeatedly.  And that’s great because it fulfills the Biblical image of hospitality. God is a lover of strangers and that’s what we’re called to do as well.  We don’t judge people, we don’t ignore people’s issues, nor do we communicate that changes isn’t expected…but we do accept people as they are.  If we can accept them in the fashion God accepts them, change can occur.  In fact, change will occur.  If we fail to accept them–to love strangers–we doom them to think God won’t accept either.

There’s “no need to be a stranger.” I look forward to more folks feeling at home at Madison Park. Let your friends and co-workers know.  They are welcome here too.

Overwhelming…Amazing…Frightening…Exciting

Tuesday, August 17th, 2010

Because I wasn’t preaching Sunday (and because of an emergency run to the hardware store to fix a baptistery leak), I had the chance to move around and see what goes on during worship. I was overwhelmed by the number of people that I didn’t recognize. I see a few folks every Sunday, but this week was literally overwhelming.

We have guests with us every week. We know that. In fact, I’m amazed by the number of new people God has brought our way. I’ve seen churches that might have a handful of guests during a year.  We have at least a dozen every week (some back for the 2nd or 3rd time). I don’t know the total for the year. We can only count those that fill out connect cards…but that is up over 150 for 2010.

The responsibility frightens me. These folks are looking for something. Some don’t even know what. Others, seeking specific answers or at least some ray of hope. Still others, for connection…friendship…acceptance. A few know…they want a church where they (and/or their children) can find Jesus and grow. Their initial impressions are critical.  In fact, one recently said, “I was greeted within 5 steps of the door.”

These are exciting times. But we need help. We need you to be hospitable. We need you to welcome people with a smile. We need you to make a seat available. We need you to offer to show them the nursery or the Warehouse or the rest rooms.  We need you to smile and nod. We need you to stop talking (for just a few moments) with your friends and speak to a stranger (the word hospitality means, love of strangers, by the way). We need you help us help them feel at home.

Some folks won’t find what they are looking for. We accept that. Some will discover that “Jesus is not for them.” Or, that our way of worship and/or preaching doesn’t fit them. We can accept all of that. What we must never accept is that we failed to give them a chance. If the gospel offends, if the truth threatens, so be it. But let us never be the offense.

Please, pray for us, that we demonstrate genuine hospitality. Please, lower your defenses and be friendly. Please, come out from your comfort zone for even a few seconds and greet some one. Please, look past your personal preferences and let another one in.

Someday, someone will say, “Because of you, I now know Jesus.”